“Things do not change, we change.” – Henry David Thoreau.

What does this mean. Let me try to explain.

1.Fire can be good and nice when camping or evil and destructive if uncontrolled.

2.A forest can be nice to look at in the daylight then at night all alone it become scary to you.

3.As for a picture you could do a gun where its used by a cop and a criminal.

4. A group of people listening to a concert some will like it some will hate it but the music is the same.

Get it?

It’s a very thin line. Opinions are vital on day to day living and sets us apart. Although you might think your opinion dont matter, it does to the person listening to you unless there big enough to accept the positive with the negative and keep moving forward. In my brain all I hear is “pain is temperorary, it may last for a minute, an hour or a week but no matter what I will win.” I have used this for everything since I was 13.

How does all this relate to me. When someone tells me I look great, that is there honest opinion. When another says you look sick that is there honest opinion. No matter what I do at that moment it’s impossible to change that person’s opinion and there really is no point. They dont see the work that gets put into being the way I am or me them but inevitably it will show in the end. Persistence is key. So take the compliments but only if you are willing to except the negatives as the famous saying goes “nobody is perfect.”

To become something your not is a long process and will not happen overnight, it takes hours, weeks, months and sometimes years of focus and determination but in the end you will look back and think it was only yesterday you Began.

Right now I have gained 20 kg since June 9th with knock backs that made me stronger and true hard work. All that has really worked was tuning out the negative and finding positive in everything. And by everything I mean EVERYTHING. It has taken 28 years and when I do reach my goal thats the beginning. On reading all these programmes of 6 weeks etc, I have come to find that its only leading you to a path of where to begin. Its a beginnong of what you want to be. So you lose 3 stone or in my case gain 20kg over 3 stone, this put me in a path but if I stop now its all for nothing. If has took over 6 months and I know that its working and by interlinking positive attitude it lets me not care of people that put me down. It makes me more determined. But if we go back to the start of this blog, is this only my opinion?

This week I embark on a new adventure. BOXERCISE. I’m finally living life and as long as I keep focused on positive everything will fall into place. The stars will align. There will be setbacks but I’m ready for them. They will make me stronger. My next goal is to find something to complete with Paula O’Neill next year by July. It started with a bang to the head and it will end with a bang to society.

#livelife